If the past weekend is included in this thread: my wife and I took part in a charity/community event. That is something we never did before!
It was wonderful. To me it proves doing something to help others and enjoying their company is what makes the efforts worth while. No Jah blessing of holy spirit and brotherly love and unity needed. It was just as nice and fun as any JW building activity, but without the JW.
Hopefully my wife will notice that too :-D